这个视频完美地向我们提供了一个在受到人身攻击和辱骂的时候应当如何回应。
1、不要为自己感到受伤或者愤怒。用人身攻击这种方式攻击你是最low的行为,该感到难堪的是对方而不是你自己。
2、把对个人的攻击和整个社会讨论风气联系起来。团结大多数,让中立者时刻意识到这个事情随时可能会发生在自己身上。
3、攻击对方的讨论道德而不是立场。人身攻击,不论你是民主党还是共和党,不论是左派还是右派,都是坚决不能容忍的(就算心里容忍也是不能公开表达)。yoho在回应中,提到了自己对于贫困议题的态度,提到了自己的信仰blabla,后面还说什么“我不会为了我自己的信仰而道歉”。这很明显是要把话题从人身攻击这个yoho无可置疑的黑点,转移到左右对立这个在整个都是社会五五开的话题,从而唤起赞同右派的人的同情。换做是一般人很容易被带偏,陷入左右争论的泥潭,从而把那些反对人身攻击但是同情右派的人推远了。AOC很明智,没有在这些问题上和yoho纠结过多,管你是不是believe in god,管你是强调law and order还是什么别的东西,你人身攻击就是不对。集中火力打击对方最不能让最多人接受的点,让对方不得不在最理亏的地方应战。
这个题目到现在为止只有两个回答,另一个答案暗搓搓地给Yoho叫屈,说这是单方面视频,但又不自己把Yoho的“道歉”贴出来。我只好勉为其难把Yoho的“道歉”声明贴在这里让大家欣赏一下。哎,真是指控张张嘴,找资源跑断腿呀。
I WORKED WITH MANY MEMBERS IN THIS CONGRESS IN THE PAST FOUR YEARS ON EACH SIDE OF THE AISLE. SO LET ME TAKE A MOMENT TO ADDRESS THIS BODY. I RISE TODAY TO APOLOGIZE FOR THE ABRUPT MANNER OF THE CONVERSATION I HAD WITH MY COLLEAGUE FROM NEW YORK. IT IS TRUE THAT WE DISAGREE ON POLICIES AND VISIONS FOR AMERICA BUT THAT DOES NOT MEAN WE SHOULD BE DISRESPECTFUL. HAVING BEEN MARRIED FOR 45 YEARS WITH TWO DAUGHTERS, I'M VERY COGNIZANT OF MY LANGUAGE. THE OFFENSIVE NAME-CALLING WORDS ATTRIBUTED TO ME BY THE PRESS WERE NEVER SPOKEN TO MY COLLEAGUES AND IF THEY WERE CONSTRUED THAT WAY, I APOLOGIZE FOR MY -- I APOLOGIZE FOR THE MISUNDERSTANDING. MY WIFE CAROLYN AND I STARTED TOGETHER AT THE AGE OF 19 WITH NOTHING. WE DID ODD JOBS. AND WE WERE ON FOOD STAMPS. I KNOW THE FACE OF POVERTY. AND FOR A TIME IT WAS MINE. THAT IS WHY I KNOW PEOPLE IN THIS COUNTRY CAN STILL WITH ALL ITS FAULTS RISE UP AND SUCCEED AND NOT BE ENCOURAGED TO BREAK THE LAW. I WILL COMMIT TO EACH OF YOU THAT I WILL CONDUCT MYSELF FROM A PLACE OF PASSION AND UNDERSTANDING THAT POLICY AND POLITICAL DISAGREEMENT BE VIGOROUSLY DEBATED WITH THE KNOWLEDGE THAT WE APPROACH, THE PROBLEMS FACING OUR NATION WITH THE BETTERMENT WITH THE COUNTRY IN OUR MIND AND THE PEOPLE WE SERVE. I CANNOT APOLOGIZE FOR MY PASSION OR FOR LOVING MY GOD, MY FAMILY, AND MY COUNTRY. I YIELD BACK.
我真是太好心了,连文字版都放上来了。
下面是Yoho众议员教你怎样道歉:
大家学会了吗?
AOC在众议院的回应得到了民主党从进步派到建制派的一致称赞,比如Pelosi说对AOC不能更自豪,比如Howard Dean说他现在认为AOC具备选总统和当总统的一切特质。甚至久不过问政治的敝校校报都专门为AOC写了一篇稿子,列举了各大媒体对这件事的报道。
但是在我眼里,她这篇九分钟的演讲,还比不上她在国会山门口拍的那个短视频。
不是说我“fxxxing bitch"吗,我就明确告诉你,"I'm a bitch, I'm a boss. I'm a bitch and a boss, I'ma shine like gloss"。
这样一个具备强大媒体造梗能力,在正式场合又能举止优雅,谈吐不凡地对社会问题进行分析与评论的AOC,将是共和党未来长期的噩梦。