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user avatar   sanberg 网友的相关建议: 
      

你还小,等你长大了你会渐渐明白,不止是男女平等,其实任何平等都是假的。

我们提倡某种“平等”一定是有现实的政治或者经济上的原因的。原来的不平等阻碍了某一群新兴势力的利益扩张,于是提倡“平等”就会变成一张可以打的牌。

新兴地主阶级推翻贵族奴隶制的时候,会把新开拓的土地分给获得自由的奴隶租种。由于那些土地尚未开垦并不肥沃,这些“自由人”很快就破产了,只好变成佃户租种地主的土地。于是新兴地主解决了劳动力稀缺的问题。这些“奴隶”之前虽然没有人身自由,但是只要他们没有太大的身体问题,奴隶主是会想尽办法养活他们的;即便养不活,也会被转给下一个奴隶主。所以这些人本来是不愁生计,不愁失业,如果干得好且够幸运,可以变成主人家的高级奴隶,其待遇也不会比现在的打工皇帝CEO之类的差。结果他们自由了,却自由的一无所有,赢得了名义上的“自由”实际上只是换了主人而已。而且这个主人,不会对他负全责,他得在那块租种的土地上自负盈亏,无论年景如何,租子一分都不能少。

工业化之后,资本家们发表了各种“人权宣言”把人类从宗族和家庭组成的社会中“解放”出来。原本依附于宗族家庭和土地生活的农民“自由”了,于是也失去了土地。他们来到城市成为了“自由的”工人。然后自由到无法决定自己的工作时间,全年必须按照朝九晚五一周五天的时间来工作,即便偷懒几个小时也要“请假”,能不能获批要看比你更高级的“工人”来如何决定。工作时间远远长于农民耕种的时间,回家休息的时间也仅仅足够用来恢复体力和心理,以便参加明天的工作。有的时候甚至都不够,于是变得过劳或者患上心理疾病。然而名义上我们是可以“自由”选择工作的,然而要是你家没有矿,你给我随便停一天工试试?即便如此,我们这些“自由人”还得担心失业。你听说过一个健康的奴隶担心失业的吗?你是主人的财产,主人不可能随意把你扫地出门,他得找活给你干,或者至少帮你找到下一个主人下一份工作。我们还得自负盈亏,自己用可怜的报酬买社会保险和商业保险防止生病和活得太久太老,于是被资本再次盘剥一次。我们还得自己负责培养下一代自由的“工人”——这绝对是奴隶们无法想象的——奴隶的孩子也是主人的财产,主人会主动为你找对象,让你生孩子并培养你的孩子,就算是为了长大卖个好价钱。

女人获得“自由”也是工业化的需求,资本需要每个可以劳动的人都变成不受家庭和宗族支配的“自由人”,女人必须和男人一样劳动,所以资本主义文化提倡自由主义和个人主义。“你们是自由的,所以你们应该离开家庭和男人独立生活,你们要离开农村和传统,来到城市成为独立的新女性”。这种运动使得资本可使用劳动力翻倍。然后资本再惊喜的发现:比起男人,女人绝对更具消费潜力。男人有了钱也不过是玩女人,最后过剩的工业品还得靠女性来消费。于是资本开始大肆宣扬“女人要对自己好一点”、“男人也要对女人好一点”、“全世界都应该关爱女性”。这恰恰是女权运动从“平等劳动”走向“特别关爱”的路径。然而慢慢的女人们发现:男人们渐渐不爱照顾女人了,结婚越来越难了,两性关系越来越不牢靠了,本来共同居住的房子居然还要分成婚前婚后财产了。

资本对女人的需求是“拼命劳动、更拼命消费”,如果你两者都不是,那你就是个没有用的人。这就是资本驱动的“男女平等”的本意。所以在现实中,如果一个女人要立足于这个世界(其实一个男人也一样),要么你自己成为一个强人,不要指望有一个家庭可以去依赖(婚姻法就是往这个方向定的);要么你依傍一个强人(男女皆可)然后拼命花他/她的钱,如果这个强人的女人(或者小白脸)越多,那么他/她的财富就可以更快地回流成资本和工业利润,所以何乐而不为呢(于是我们要弱化传统道德)。


user avatar   wo-ming-you-wo-bu-you-tian-58-77 网友的相关建议: 
      


user avatar   yan-jia-xiong-75 网友的相关建议: 
      

你配不上和你一样的女生

我要化身有文化的流氓,用我6段铭心的恋爱经历来拯救广大爷们了,我的回答和做法可能会颠覆大家的认知,事实会有点残忍,所以请系好安全带,认真听讲,做笔记。

1.男女永远是不平等的,所以不要苛求平等。你要做的是在两性关系中把握平衡并主导这场感情。

一项关于男女差异之魅力有多大的调查中,选取了两名颜值普遍评分为7分的男女实验者,(这颜值反正我还差一点>:-<)把附近人打开,并绕繁华商业街走一圈。一周后统计结果显示:

男:搭讪次数6次 附近人加好友9人

女:搭讪次数24次 附近人加好友35人

接近4倍左右的比例,这告诉我们男女不同角色属性是有严格区别的(男性:主动性和攻击性;女性:依赖性被动性)。这数据是不是挺冲击人的,男的贼帅也恐怕才比得起一个普通的女生,再者你有7分颜值吗?(真这么帅的我等会再跟你讲,别问为什么我帅但没女朋友)

就问你平等么?

还有大家有没有观察过,同一个单位,如基层公务员中的女同事,她多半不会喜欢上同事呀,她的对象一般是主任或者某局长,与自身一般高1.5个级别左右。(我所在单位女同事贼多,但你敢信单身男同事居然一大把,按理说内部消化挺好呀,但男女同事基本上没有结婚或者谈恋爱的,有结婚的但是是越级的)不管你信不信,这很现实,你配不上和你一样的女生。据数据权重分析比对,我初步计算出应该在1.46左右。

1=1.5 平等?

所以,赶快看看你们班的同学,你周围的女同事他们比你高噢,你得她们都强才能喜欢上你。

大家可以看周围的女生是怎么生活的,生活质量那直接高出男的两三个水平。同样是拿着三五千工资,女的各种游山玩水,时而豪华午餐,时儿香格里拉,手提名牌包包,喷着香水,出入各种高端场所,而男的呢,省吃俭用,就差天天干泡面了,就为了买房买车娶媳妇,让你都感叹,我要是个女的就好了……

马丹,你敢说这男女平等?

所以海燕你可长点心吧,还男女平等?

人类也是动物,遵循最基本的原则,请看动物世界,要想获得交配权,那你必须能从众多雄性中脱引而出,雌性会选择强者留下基因。而你是那个强者吗?

是不是心态爆炸了,听我后面讲,萎缩发育,别浪!

2.女生的话不要盲目相信,前一句还在说喜欢会做饭,温柔体贴踏实的男人,下一秒就坐在小混混机车上尖叫着远去。

内心是不是想说去特么的,还说喜欢温柔体贴踏实的男人,女人的话太可怕,我一定不要相信了。

所以不要太相信女人说的话,因为连她们自己都不相信。什么!你不服?我不经历一个真实的事论证过,我会这样说。(事情是这样的,我们五个人一起出去玩,我哥们因为单身狗,人也贼踏实,就说为什么我是单身狗呀!20年都没找到女朋友,遂问三个女生,他们都喜欢什么的品质和男朋友应该怎样做才会被喜欢。女生们开始鬼话1.我呀!我只要他宠我,疼我的男生。2.我喜欢温柔体贴的男生3.踏实稳重吧。

然后哥们就贼用心的记着,就差不多拿小本本记笔记了,后来他就按照她们说的一条条的去做。哥们喜欢上了第二个女生,然后就在女生一发显性和隐性的动态,第二天必然送到楼下,女生大姨妈来了,大晚上都送红糖水,姜茶去女生宿舍,自己大汗满头的回到宿舍,然后还不忘嘘寒问暖,轻声细语生怕惊扰到了她的说:早点睡噢,晚安!

我其实早就看出了悲剧的发生,从他做的第一件事开始,我猜中了开头,也猜中了结尾。

但我选择了让他顺其自然,让他感动自己吧,让他傻傻的爱一次吧,每个人都会经历一次刻骨铭心的爱,那种一往无前的执着,那种被窝里的失声痛哭,那种由闪闪发光的爱意到慢慢深如死灰的失落和绝望……

结局只有一个:不好意思,谢谢你的关心和照顾,但我们不合适,你是个好男孩,我们做朋友吧。(我听过最打脸的赞美,卧槽还要继续想让那男生付出,你咋不上天,臭不要脸的!)

3.表白是关系确立的补偿,而非冲锋的号角。你不表白死,谁死?

我们是不是经常看到某某学校表白,点了一个爱心蜡烛,撒满玫瑰花瓣表白,结果被一盆洗脚水淋成落汤鸡的(爱得痛了,痛得哭了

),还有送了一封情书,从此成路人的,朋友都做不成了的。还有发短信表白的,从此电话拉黑,好友删除。(尴尬咯)这个人是不是你。

那熊老师怎样表白才能被接受呢?这学生白听课了,上去就是脑袋上三板砖。我刚才说了表白是最后干的事,你要问怎样才能让女生喜欢上我?

对了蛮,这样问才对。1.需求产生价值,她真正需要什么你提供什么2.虽然男女不平等,但你要懂得平衡关系。不要一味的只知道付出,迁就,示弱,女人不喜欢没思想主见的男人,女人喜欢追随可依靠,强大自信的男人。多思考我付出的有价值吗?不要做感动自己的人。3.提升自己内外在素质呀,该健身健身,该买衣服买衣服,不投资自己谁特么来投资你。4.还有工作也不能落下。

我谈过的这些恋爱里,我没有表白过一次,爱她我会用行动表达,语言是苍白的,

还有非常重要的几点,有需求才有价值,我只想要一个苹果,你却给我一箱梨。这个就是零价值事件。因为没有需求就没有价值。

4.喜欢她就让她给你一颗糖

适当的索取是平衡两性关系重要的方法,这一颗糖包括很多(如你送她花,她为你做一顿饭,你载着她她给你买水,你做饭她洗碗等等这样的事)。因为没有人会跟着比自己弱的人过一辈子。付出要懂得回报。敞开怀抱接受,用心去反馈。这才是男人该做的。

女人不是全部,作为男人还有理想和追求。我的世界不止有你,还有漫天的星辰和大海。你该做一个独立有内涵的男人!

好辣,我是一个有文化的流氓,不要崇拜我,我曾经和你一样。记得点个赞再走。

分割线――――――――――――

浪荡岁月后,自己已然开始种植自己的幸福,收起不羁。

遇到不同的灵魂,就会有不同的体验,有春风拂面的温暖动人,夏日红火的热情洋溢,秋水含波的柔情缠绵,冬雪冰清的一触就融,化在她的世界里,那些曾经爱过我的女孩,我想就算分别了也给她们青春带去过风和日丽,漫天星辰,笑容挂满过脸上。

――致那些曾经爱过我的女孩。

人生路漫漫,缘起缘灭皆定数,不可强求,静侯佳缘即可。那些没有追逐到的或追逐到的其实都本不属于你,放飞它吧,她或许有一天还会飞回来的,而那时的你应该也芬芳了,她会附在枝头和你共度一生直至凋零。


user avatar   phobos 网友的相关建议: 
      

整个事件的关键是,你把平等的概念搞乱了,男女平等不等于绝对平等、样样平等。

男人木有BB,女人木有鸡鸡,按说是个无法调和的极大的不平等了吧?

但是男人有个鸡鸡,女人有个BB,各有各的用处,这样正过来看,似乎又非常平等了吧?

再来,男人用鸡鸡,女人用BB,咱们共同创造一个美好的生活,生育1-2个熊孩子,创建一个美好的家,这是不是实现了幸福的平等了呢?

所以,以差异求合作,共发展谋平等,这样动态的思维方式,才是男女平等的正确点开方式,对不对?


user avatar   jun-zi-bu-li-wei-qiang-zhi-xia-25 网友的相关建议: 
      

前几天在空间看到有一个提问

男朋友很理性,喜欢讲道理该怎么办

然后下面的评论差不多全是清一色的

“你是要讲道理还是要我?”

“一吵架就讲道理的话老娘要你干嘛?”

“这种男朋友不分留着过年?”

我往下滑了半天,才看到一个不支持这类观点的女生,然而.....

无理取闹不是优点,如果连女生自己都认为女生就应该无理取闹,那如何谈男女平等呢?


user avatar   zhai-mou-94-79 网友的相关建议: 
      

你看跟谁比了。

撒旦先生不如桃白白是板上钉钉的事儿。基本上可以认为战斗力数值低于100。



但撒旦有很多可圈可点的地方:


1.空手劈14片瓦片,然后手很疼。

我估计我顶多能劈一片,手还得肿好几天。

按我战斗力只有5来算(干农活的农夫从理论上讲应该比我这个常年码字的强),那么撒旦应该大概有5×14=70的战斗力。


2.被沙鲁扔飞几十米,脑袋着地,落地后只是皮外伤。

3.被小特兰克斯打飞,直线飞出去,脑袋撞墙,仅皮外伤。

这两条换成正常人足够致死。而撒旦基本没啥事儿,可见战斗力不低于初登场战斗力只有10的小悟空。


我认为撒旦应该约等于参加天下第一武道会的小林,可能稍微弱一点。


user avatar   wu-ming-85-74-23 网友的相关建议: 
      

全面地,从宏观介绍差异的一篇文章:

12 Differences Between Chinese Education and American Education

Posted on June 1, 2007

This analysis is being prepared for a presentation I am going to make at the International Conference on Intercultural Education in Harbin, China on June 22-24. I would be interested in receiving your observations, comments, questions about the differences between Chinese and American educational practices.

  1. Class Size is the first noticeable difference at the middle school and high school level. Teachers typically teach two classes (in an 8 period day) with from 55 to 65 students. American secondary teachers typically teach five or six classes with class sizes ranging from 25 to 30. The Chinese teachers use their non-teaching time to grade papers and to prepare for their classes, except for the head teachers (banzhuren) which will be explained later.
  2. While Americans think the "cohort" concept is innovative, China has been using it for decades. Throughout China, students beginning in a school are put into classes and they stay in those classes with one another for the entire time they are in that school unless higher test scores permit them to move to a more advanced grouping. Understood in the Chinese system is that this group of students will learn each of their subjects together. In America, students are not grouped into such classes. Instead, the 30 students who are together for English class will be randomly split up into any of the other subjects for the next period and the period after that, and so on. The next year, the students are totally mixed up again into different classes. Occasionally, the same class of students will take two courses together, such as English and history, but that is rare. The Chinese carry the cohort concept into the university level as well. My four classes of students stay together for all of their required courses the whole time they are at university.
  3. Chinese students stay in the same classroom for their main classes and their teachers come to them while American students change rooms every period and the room belongs to the teacher. Thus, Chinese students don’t have hallway lockers. Students sit in the same seats for each subject and keep their materials in a shelf under their desk top. Many students have cloth covers for their desk and other means of making it "homey".
  4. Chinese education is built on what Americans call "looping". The teachers of the students in the entering class will also follow their same students to the next grade level and the next. In America, it is very unusual for teachers to move with their students from one grade level to the next at the middle school or high school level let alone to loop for the entire period of time the student is in that school. At the primary school level, students begin in grade one with a teacher and stay with that teacher every year they are in primary school. My university students reflect on that teacher as being so very important to them that they really didn’t want to leave them when it was time to go to middle school. American teachers, on the other hand, tend to specialize in the curriculum and content for a particular grade level and then stay at that level. Sometimes, teachers who want to teach older students will ask to move to a higher grade, but then that teacher would typically stay at that level until retirement. That practice means that in America, subject matter and teacher preference might be valued more highly than student needs or student learning.
  5. Another significant structural difference between American and Chinese schools is the concept of head teacher or "banzhuren". The banzhuren takes additional responsibility in delivering instruction, supervising their specific class of students, and in knowing their students and the families of the students and in communicating with those families. For less than 200 yuan per month more, the banzhuren will arrive at school prior to 7:00 a.m. to prepare for the day and to work with early arriving students. The student day at the middle school ends at 4:55 and the teachers leave shortly after that. The banzhuren will not only teach her specific class that she is in charge of but will also sit in on many other subjects throughout the day so she can monitor the progress of her students with other teachers, counsel her students, and contact the parents of those students if necessary. The banzhuren will monitor her class during lunch and nap with them after lunch. One banzhuren told me that she is like a mother to those students who don’t have the parental support they need. In addition, at Liaoning Normal University Junior Middle School (LNUJMS) thebanzhurens are expected to visit the homes and families of half their students sometime during the first term and the other half during the second term. These visitations would take place on Saturdays or Sundays or on holidays. The banzhurenwill, after three years, receive a bonus based on the academic improvement of her class. In America, the individual teacher is expected to make parent contact when a student misbehaves or is not performing at a satisfactory level. In American secondary schools there is also a person called a guidance counsellor who will assist with parent contact. However, the guidance counsellor will have a case load of 350 to 500 students and she often must resort to group counselling sessions.
  6. The Chinese believe in merit pay and in using student test scores for teacher evaluation. For example, when the 9th graders leave middle school they are tested to see which high school they are qualified to attend. Since the same teachers have had those students for three years, they compare their entry score to their exit score. The classes that showed the most academic gain resulted in that banzhurenreceiving a bonus that might range from 3000 yuan to 6000 yuan (one month or two months pay). The same is true at the high school level. On the other hand, a teacher whose students did not show growth will be evaluated accordingly. At LNUJMS, the math team won first place in the District math contest. As a reward, the four math teachers split a 2000 yuan bonus. The teachers I have talked with like the bonus system. So for years the Chinese have been doing what the American conservatives have been advocating and our teacher unions have been fighting.
  7. Discipline in Chinese schools easier than in American schools. For example, at LNUJMS, I was surprised to find minimal student supervision during lunch and between classes. One administrator and one teacher were in the hallway and no teachers were in their classrooms. The other teachers had gone to their offices to meet with students for academic or disciplinary reasons or for a rest between classes. In America, the time between classes is as short as possible, three, four, or perhaps five, minutes. Students are expected to move from their classroom, go to their lockers to get materials for their next class, and then move to that class. The American teachers are expected to be in the hallways during passing periods because that is when fighting and other misbehaviors occur. It is nearly impossible to even imagine a 10 minute passing period in an American school.
  8. Chinese students are very respectful. When Chinese students recite, they stand; when students hand in a paper, they use both hands as if they were making a presentation of the paper to the teacher; when students refer to their teacher in writing, they often use terminology such as , “Our dear teacher.” In interviewing thebanzhurens, they commented that is their duty to teach students how to do well in life and how to be a man. University students, when asked to recall their middle school and high school years often speak of their teachers in very exalted ways telling how much their teachers meant to them.
  9. Chinese students play active and important roles (zhirisheng) in sweeping the classrooms, scrubbing the steps, serving meals, being class monitors, and helping teachers. Student monitors can be seen wearing special armbands in the hallway, watching to make certain students are doing their twice-daily eye exercises properly, providing leadership on the marching field, watering plants, empty bins, cleaning windows, helping to distribute the daily lunch, and so on. Students always seemed to be carrying out their tasks very seriously and in good humor. The student monitor system is utilized at the university level as well with these appointed students helping the teacher in making copies, distributing and collecting papers, contacting classmates and so on. Like the concept of banzhuren, the concept of zhirishengcannot find its English equivalent due to the different Sino-American educational systems. Most Chinese schools are operated on the zhirisheng system for the purpose of maintaining clean classrooms and schools.
  10. Chinese students buy their textbooks each year and the textbooks are soft cover and relatively thin. The textbooks I looked at had a 2006 copyright and I understand that they all have recently undergone revision. The cost is about $1 for a textbook and $2 for a workbook that accompanies the textbook. Students make heavy use of highlighters and annotations in their books. In addition, the textbooks often have moral lessons built into them. For instance, when a particular scientist is highlighted, aspects of his/her life that are exemplary are extolled, such as hard work, protecting the environment, overcoming obstacles, etc. On the other hand, American textbooks are hard cover, updated every six years (at least in Indiana), and are rented to students. Students are not allowed to mark in their textbooks in America.
  11. It almost goes without saying that the curriculum in China is standard nation-wide and that students have few elective choices. National goals, national curriculum, national expectations, national exercises, and even a national class schedule are all built around the Chinese Education Schema that is based on centuries of tradition. In America, education is primarily the responsibility of the state governments. Counting Washington D.C., there are 51 separate governments that give direction to public schools. Further, except for Hawaii, states are divided into school districts that also have certain autonomies. Indiana, for example, has 292 school districts, 292 different teacher contracts, salary schedules, and sets of working conditions.
  12. Deeply embedded in the Chinese culture is the examination system. Since the Song Dynasty (960 AD), the Chinese have relied on the examination process to identify their governmental leaders. Now the examination system is used to determine which university students are able to attend. These national exams were given on June 7 and 8. Local middle schools were used as test sites and those middle school students had a two day holliday. The test is of such great significance that parents rent hotel rooms nearby so their student can have a quiet lunch and take a nap. I saw one hotel with a big banner wishing students luck on the exam. Students will take either the liberal arts test or the science test. For liberal arts students, the first test, Chinese, was from 9:00-11:30. Students were dismissed and came back for the math test from 3:00-5:00. On Friday, the schedule was the same, with the morning session being geography, politics, and history and the afternoon session being English. The parents filled the street in front of the school and anxiously awaited students coming from the test sites and wanted to know how their child did. Taxi cabs even offer free service to these students to help them get home or to the testing site. My friend Kevin’s uncle took time off work to drive Kevin to the test site, pick him up at noon to take him home, then bring him back. It is huge deal!
    (原文:slkchina.wordpress.com/



  

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