24岁，想离婚的愿望特别强烈，怎么好聚好散？ 第1页

有一首歌完全就是为题主写的。Charlene 的《I've never been to me》，旋律非常好听，歌词翻译成中文是这样的：

嘿女士，就是你，埋怨着生活的你

你是一个不满现实的母亲，一个刻板的太太

我坚信你幻想着那些从来没做过的事情

但我希望有人能像我一样，跟你谈一番话

我曾去过佐治亚，去过加利福利亚，任何我可以去的地方

我拉着传教士的手，在阳光下与他肢体缠绵

然而现在我无处可去，没有了友好的面孔，只因为我当初选择了自由

我曾到过天堂，却未曾有过自我

嘿女士，请你不要这样走开

因为我有必要告诉你，为什么我如今孤零一人

我能在你的眼中看到曾经的自己

而你能否感知到一个曾活在无数谎言里的疲惫的心

我曾到过尼斯和希腊的小岛

在那里乘着游艇喝香槟

我像哈洛搬去蒙地卡罗，给她们看了我的所有

国王曾褪去我的衣裳，我也看过一些女人不该看到的东西

我曾到过天堂，却未曾有过自我

嘿，你知道什么是天堂吗？它是个谎言

是人们依照自己对人和事的喜好编织的幻想

但是你知道什么是现实吗？

是你手中抱着的婴儿，是那个清晨和你争吵打闹，夜里却能和你享鱼水之欢的男人

那才是现实，那才是爱

有时我为那未能出生的婴儿落泪

或许它能让我才能变得完整

但我，选择了甜蜜的生活，殊不知生活会先甜后苦

我花了一生才明白，寻花问柳要付出多沉重的代价

嘿女士，我到过天堂，却未曾有过自我

Hey lady, you, lady, cursin' at your life
You're a discontented mother and a regimented wife
I've no doubt you dream about the things you never do
But I wish someone had a talk to me like I wanna talk to you
Ooh I've been to Georgia and California, and, anywhere I could run
Took the hand of a preacher man and we made love in the sun
But I ran out of places and friendly faces because I had to be free

I've been to paradise, but I've never been to me

Please lady, please, lady, don't just walk away
'Cause I have this need to tell you why I'm all alone today
I can see so much of me still living in your eyes
Won't you share a part of a weary heart that has lived a million lies
Oh I've been to Nice and the isle of Greece
Where I sipped champagne on a yacht
I moved like Harlow in Monte Carlo and showed 'em what I've got
I've been undressed by kings and I've seen some things
That a woman ain't s'posed to see

I've been to paradise, but I've never been to me

Hey, you know what paradise is? It's a lie
A fantasy we create about people and places as we'd like them to be
But you know what truth is?
It's that little baby you're holding, and it's that man you fought with this morning
The same one you're going to make love with tonight.

That's truth, that's love

Sometimes I've been to cryin' for unborn children
That might have made me complete
But I, I took the sweet life and never knew I'd be bitter from the sweet
I spent my life exploring the subtle whoring that cost too much to be free

Hey lady, I've been to paradise, but I've never been to me